Why Relationships Never Last Forever… But… Can ;)

The reason is so so so so simple.

And many people who’ve been in quite a number of relationships, like myself. Will share with you is that usually more often than not one or both of the people inside the relationship failed to grow into a higher version of themselves.

Love is the only reuniting force behind our connections that exist within all of our lives.

However, the reason why relationships NEVER last forever… but CAN. Is simply due to the reason that there are nearly 0 people that exist in the planet that can hear their heart, accept what it has to say, and most importantly follow what it says ALL the time.

Let’s go a little bit deeper by showing of examples…

The first couple has a beautiful absolutely perfect physical relationship and they are the type that nearly all of us and most of us dream of…

When they are together people cannot help but look at this perfectly matched couple. They EVEN look like each other…. Yes… we all know those types. Born to be together. “soul mates” from the look of it.

Here’s where these relationships go south. And why, they are nearly always most difficult during breakups.

When the connection and the layers of interest are higher (we love how they look, we love what they do for work, we love how they walk, we love we love we love WE LOVE all the parts of them) EXCEPT for 1 tiny little thing…. Say for example…. They cannot hear their own intuition and fail to attempt at doing so… EVERYTHING within ourselves gets crushed… when the individual decides that the relationship is not growing and their tiny little fuck up is growing and pestering and not getting resolved…. OVER and OVER and OVER and… dare i say it… FOREVER.

When individuals fail at growing. Their relationships fail at thriving…

sure the other can avoid and push it down… but nearly every single time. These failures at growth lead to the destruction of the most profound relationships that exist on our planet. And they hurt… usually like fucking hell. So much fucking hell…

The beautiful thing is

For the individual who decides that the relationship no longer suits them for their highest good…

They.. (after 4 years of living hell from their breakup)lol they fucking explode in their own growth.

Why? They trusted.

They did what they needed to do…

EVEN though…. They DID NOT want to do it. AT ALL. Because it was the most profoundly deep relationship they had ever been in.

But…

When a relationship like that comes around again. No mistake is made.

They see the difficulty within the other. They know what’s bound to come. And they hold their selves accountable to their own highest potential by saying…

“THIS WILL NOT HAPPEN TO ME AGAIN”

Then more often than those who fail at growing…

They grow in their ability to simply…

HAVE MORE FUN :)

Yes, dare i say it.

Fun is the root of all growth.

However, it comes at a cost of growth first.

Like letting go of people that keep us from becoming higher.

Eventually we see that fun included a completely entirely new way of being that we had never seen before.

And something magical happens…

Life transforms.

We pass the test. And if the tests completed life grows for us. If there are more tests..

the test changes. They come anew. Usually not in the same way. Unless of course… we have karma to deal with…

Which is a whole other story.

But.. let’s conclude here.

ALL RELATIONSHIPS NEVER LAST FOREVER BUT CAN…

IF we ALL decide to hear our hearts, trust it, and yes… live the hearts truth in its entirety.

And that my friends, is a magical relationship that well… unfortunately… doesn’t really exist…

But can <3